love is there,even if they dont show it

personally, I am one of the worst people to show affection.I want to be touched and loved on , but I am not the one to always reach out. I don't think you need to make out in the mall in front of everyone to see, I mean get a room ,right?! but in all seriousness, it is nice to have them reach out and grab your hand, put there hand in the dip of your back or around your shoulder... Show me you want me!
My husband doesn't reach out to hold my hand most of the time, but I know he loves me.... When its late at night and the kids are in bed, he will reach out to me and want to cuddle. I think that men especially , don't think about that kind thing as often as women do , and or require a little lovin now and again. Its defiantly true that a man feels more love from you and affection, while making  love , where a woman feels more love and affection by simply spooning on the couch or a back rub! (he will hear me say this over and over)